“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�

“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�

Idealistic expectations: For a man who has high hopes from his life partner, which is more so in love marriages, disappointment sets in easily. That is why it is rightly said “Keep your eyes open before marriage and half shut afterwards.” But some men and women want everything to be picture perfect. As time passes, they get to know each other’s flaws. The wife becomes careless in her speech and behavior. In comparison, the other woman seems better in every way, even if she is not that good looking.
Looking for romance: The drudgery of housework — paying bills, doing laundry, cooking, shopping for vegetables and groceries — all these responsibilities rob one’s life of romance. The other woman provides that missing light that is called romance. The romantic stuff like sending SMS messages, flowers, love notes — are no longer a part of a much-married man’s existence. The thrill of meeting clandestinely is also an attraction for a married man. In comparison, the relationship with the wife seems very boring while the other woman seems to have the aura of mystery, which is so attractive.
Sexual Attraction:  sexual desires play a major role in extramarital affairs. If the husband and wife are facing problems in their sexual life, there are more chances of the man seeking that much denied satisfaction outside.