Bonding for Life

Bonding for Life

Every young girl cherishes dreams of possessing a loving husband who dotes on her, caters to her every wish and hangs on every word she speaks. She surreptitiously learns certain ploys to achieve this end too. In fact, many men feel convinced that the woman is a wily piece who has many tricks up her sieve to ensnare her unwitting husband and twine him around her Little finger.

And why not? A loving wife and a compliant husband create the perfect ambience for a cozy happy home.

And how, anyway, does the bride contrive to win over the heart of her new husband? The exercise should start from the very start of the marriage when the foundation for a strong and loving lifelong relationship is best laid. No man can resist the allure of a willing and cooperative Bride who sweetly surrenders to his first overtures.

She sometimes acts the innocent lass, and sometimes the wise courtesan. She guides his fumbling and his bumbling, creating a pleasurable relationship for both of them.

It is, therefore, wise for her to have adequate knowledge of the physical side of marriage. She can then please her spouse and get satisfaction too. Some brides put on pretence of not knowing anything about sex lest it sows seeds of suspicion in their husband’s mind. Nowadays, this fear is baseless, for information on this subject can easily be got from magazines and books.

A husband who is close to his family can quickly be won over by a bride who shows regard for his parents and siblings. If she shows him that henceforth his family is hers and their joys and problems are also hers, he will begin to draw her closer to him.

Even when attempting to create a close bond with the bridegroom, the wife should not succumb to the temptation of unburdening all her secrets on him.