ITs MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT
“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�
 SIGNS OF A TROUBLED MARRIAGE
 The Bubble Bursts: when men have an extramarital affair, they are mostly in love with an illusion. The wife’s flaws are magnified, as she is constantly with the husband in all kinds of situations like - just out of bed with swollen eyes, oil in her hair, or looking haggard with housework. The other woman seems so perfect. Often met outside the house, she is well dressed and well behaved all the time.
The unfaithful husband has a romantic view of the lover. The moment the lover replaces the wife; she does not seem so perfect. The man who marries the second woman will soon find that he is facing the same problems that he had been facing with his first wife. Marriage will burst the bubble of idealised romance. (more…)
Dr. PHIL Your total Life makeover MARRIAGE
Dr. PHIL Your total Life makeover MARRIAGE
One of the main things that cause relationships to fail is unrealistic expectations. Studies show people are most upset if what happens contradicts what they think will happen — if I blindfold you and say that I’ll put something salty on your tongue, and then do so, your reaction will be almost non-existent. But if I say I’m going; to put some-thing sweet on your tongue and I put something salty instead, you’re likely to overreact!
One of the biggest misconceptions in relationships is that if you love each other, you shouldn’t have to work at it. Of course you do! The fact that you love each other just means you have something to work on. If you merge two lives, with two sets of finances, two families, two sets of values, you can’t think love conquers all. I’ve been married 28 years. (more…)
“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�
“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�
 SIGNS OF A TROUBLED MARRIAGE
• A husband who tries to pick a fight  all  the  time  needs  more attention.  He needs  help.  He  is feeling ignored and left out. Give him his due before he strays and makes life hell for you and the family.
•   If  communication  channels suddenly seem to stop, you must take appropriate steps. If silence seems to sit between your husband and you, and there seems to be a barrier around the husband, then you need to take notice. The key is to open     up     and     have     good communication with your husband.
Find out the reason for his resentment and withdrawal because this is a potentially dangerous situation. The moment he finds someone who can understand his point of view and respects it too, there are chances of him getting closer to her and finally it can culminate in an affair. (more…)
“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�
“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�
SIGNS OF A TROUBLED MARRIAGE
There are many signs of a troubled marriage. As soon as you spot one, take it as a warning and start working to save your marriage.
• If the two of you have no desire to be together, then give a hard look at your relationship. If your man is spending a lot of time outside the home without adequate reasons, it is the first sign that the marriage is heading for trouble. Try to make the atmosphere at home pleasant and find out what is making him stay away from you.
• Too many late nights of your husband should ring warning bells for you. Do not nag him or fight with him. Try gently to bring him closer to you. Plan a holiday together. Do the things you both enjoy together. (more…)
“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�
“IT’S MY MARRIGE AND I LOVE IT.�
Idealistic expectations: For a man who has high hopes from his life partner, which is more so in love marriages, disappointment sets in easily. That is why it is rightly said “Keep your eyes open before marriage and half shut afterwards.” But some men and women want everything to be picture perfect. As time passes, they get to know each other’s flaws. The wife becomes careless in her speech and behavior. In comparison, the other woman seems better in every way, even if she is not that good looking. (more…)